CHAPTER
VII
MARRIAGE
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Summary—Marriage the Resource Against Social Sins. Not to be
Lightly Dissolved. The Mutual Obligations. The Unmarried State Freest from
Trouble in Times of Persecution. But Neither Husband nor Wife to Leave Each
Other. If They Should, to Remain Unmarried. Not to Abandon an Unbelieving
Husband or Wife Because of their Unbelief. To Rest Content with the Secular
State in which One is Converted. The Treatment of Virgin Daughters. Let Them
Marry Under Certain Conditions. Under Others, Best Not to Marry in those
Critical Times. The Remarriage of Widows.
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1–7. Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote. In the preceding six chapters Paul has mainly treated of
irregularities in the Corinthian church, of which he had learned through the
“household of Chloe,” and other private sources. Now he begins to answer
various questions asked in a letter from the church. If we had that letter, it
would aid much in understanding what follows by revealing more clearly the
state of the church and the discussions going on within. It is good for a
man not to touch a woman. An Old Testament phrase which means not to marry.
He does not mean that marriage is wrong, but that on account of “the present
distress” it was a good thing not to be bound by family ties. See verse 26.
“Forbidding to marry” is one of the signs of apostasy (1 Tim. 4:3). See
Heb. 13:4. 2. To avoid fornication. To prevent this sin, and the
temptations to it in an unmarried state, especially in a vicious community, it
was best for each sex that they be married; the normal condition of the sexes. 3.
Let the husband render unto the wife her due. The Revision is correct.
Marriage is a state of mutual obligations. Each must yield to the other what
those obligations require. 4. The wife hath not power over her own body,
etc. Each sex here is put on exactly the same footing. The body of each
belongs to the other, and cannot be yielded to other parties. The spirit of the
passage not only forbids adultery, but polygamy. 5. Defraud ye not one the
other. The married pair are not live apart, except by mutual agreement, and
that only for a season, while devoting themselves to a period of prayer. In the
East, the women have separate apartments, and during this season the husband
would not enter the wife’s apartments. 6. But this I say by permission, etc.
What is just stated (verse 5) is permissible in the married state, not
commanded. 7. I would that all men were as I myself. Had absolute
self-control, as I have. His directions all recognize the weakness of human
nature, and the need of making no requirements too great for it. But every
man hath his proper gift. He had the gift of self-control; others might
have other gifts which he did not have.
8–11. To the unmarried and widows. If they have his self-control, it is well for them to
remain unmarried, even as he. Not that the unmarried state is better, but on
account of “the present distress” (verse 26), the critical times. There are
times when it is best to remain unmarried; for instance, in a time of war and
invasion. The ground of his advice is not moral, but prudential. 9. If they
cannot contain. If they cannot control their desires, it is best to marry. 10.
To the married I command. Some might say, “If the unmarried state is best
now, it will be better to leave our married partner.” He replies, “The Lord
commands otherwise” (Mark 10:12; Matt. 5:32; Matt. 19:9). 11. But and if
she depart. Provided, despite the prohibition, there is such disagreement
that she leaves her husband, she must remain unmarried, or be reconciled. Let
not the husband put away his wife. The wife “departs,” because she leaves
the home; the husband “puts away his wife,” by sending her off. Both are
equally prohibited. The same rules apply to each sex. Among the Jews, only the
husband exercised the right of divorce; among the Greeks and Romans, the wife
exercised it equally with the husband.
12–17. To the rest I speak, not the Lord. On the circumstances that follow, the Lord has not directly
spoken, as he did on divorce; hence, Paul speaks by inspiration. If any
brother hath a wife that believeth not, etc. If either husband or wife is
converted, and the other is not, they must not on this account forsake the
unbelieving helpmeet, provided he or she is pleased to remain. 14. For the
unbelieving husband is sanctified, etc. This passage has been much debated,
and little understood. The unbelieving husband or wife is not made personally
holy, not do the children of believers have personal holiness transmitted to
them by virtue of birth relation. Sanctification, then, means something besides
personal holiness. To sanctify is to separate to a sacred use, or relation (Exod.
20:8; 28:38). In 1 Tim. 4:4, 5, food is “sanctified by the word of God and
prayer” Here Paul uses the term to denote that one Christian member of a
household brings a sanctifying influence to it, so that all the members are to
be regarded as separated in part from the great, ungodly, unclean world.
Nehemiah commanded Jews to part from heathen wives on the ground that they were
ceremonially unclean. Paul insists, rather, that the believer cleanses the
other, and that the unbelieving partner, or the children, are rendered
ceremonially clean. But now are they holy. Brought into such a sacred
relation that the unbelieving partners are under the power of sacred
influences, and not to be counted as sources of defilement. 15. But if the
unbelieving depart. If the unbelieving husband or wife insists upon making
the Christian profession a ground of separation, let them have their way.
Examples of this kind occur in every age, and the rule is always applicable. God
hath called us to peace. Hence, if strife must prevail to prevent
separation, let the other go. 16. How knowest thou, O wife, etc. Let the
Christian be gentle, forbearing, unselfish, though true to Christ, and perhaps
the result will be that they will be God’s means to save their partner. This
has occurred in thousands of instances. 17. As God hath distributed to every
man. “This I would add,” says Paul in effect, “whatever may be the lot
and special circumstances of each man, single, married, or deserted on account
of Christianity, let him walk in it without seeking a change.”
18–24. Was any one called being circumcised? He now applies the principle just stated, of walking “as
God called every one.” The circumcised Jews were to be content that they were
circumcised; the uncircumcised Gentiles were to remain so when they became
Christians. 19. Circumcision is nothing, etc. Has no bearing on final
salvation. The one essential condition is “keeping the commandments of God.”
Nothing can take the place of this. 20. Let each man abide, etc. In that
secular condition of life in which he was when called. 21. Art thou called
being a servant? Half the population of the Roman Empire at this time were
slaves. Thousands of the early Christians were in this condition. If a servant
was converted, let him not be troubled over his servile state; but if he had
the means of becoming free, let him rather choose freedom. 22. For he that
is called … being a servant. The eternal equality of the servant and
freeman in Christ is shown. The “servant” is Christ’s freedman, since Christ
has freed him from sin; the freeman, when converted, is Christ’s servant. 23.
Ye are bought with a price. Christ has bought each alike, ransomed them
from the bondage of sin with his blood, and bound them to his service as his
own. Be not ye the servants of men. As Christ’s servants, do not become
the followers of any other religious master. 24. Let every man, wherein he
is called, etc. Let each one remain in the domestic and social condition in
which the call of God found him.
25–28. Now concerning virgins. No doubt in the letter from Corinth it was asked whether a
father should place his virgin daughters in marriage. In the East to this day
the marriage arrangements are made by the parents. I have no commandment.
He had no revelation upon the subject, but could give his Christian judgment. 26.
I suppose … for the present distress. The critical condition in which
Christians were placed by the spirit of persecution which then prevailed. Good
for a man so to be. To remain in the state he already is. 27. Art thou
bound? If married, he is to remain true to the bond; if unmarried, at
present it seemed best to remain so. 28. But and if thou marry. Still,
while it seemed prudent, with impending persecution, not to marry, it was not
wrong to do so. Nevertheless, those who did, should have trouble in the
flesh. Anxiety and distress on account of their domestic ties.
29–35. The time is short.
The precise application cannot be known. It was but a short time until
Jerusalem should be destroyed, and the early church supposed this would be the
end of the world. Life, too, is short; the time of preparation is short. It was
the general feeling then that some awful convulsion was close at hand. There
was. Within half a generation the whole Roman world was turned up by civil war,
three emperors in succession were slain, and Jerusalem was destroyed.
As though they had none. Should look on all earthly ties as soon to be broken. All earthly arrangements must be regarded as transitory. 31. Those that use this world, etc. We all have to use the world; but we must not misuse it. That is the charge here. 32. I would have you free from cares. That is, I would have you free from the causes which bring cares. 34. There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The sole thought of the unmarried person who is consecrated to Christ is to please Christ. 35. This I speak … not that I may cast a snare. Not to interfere with your freedom to marry. A snare thrown over the head made the victim helpless. Paul merely advises what, under the circumstances of that period, seemed most prudent.
As though they had none. Should look on all earthly ties as soon to be broken. All earthly arrangements must be regarded as transitory. 31. Those that use this world, etc. We all have to use the world; but we must not misuse it. That is the charge here. 32. I would have you free from cares. That is, I would have you free from the causes which bring cares. 34. There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The sole thought of the unmarried person who is consecrated to Christ is to please Christ. 35. This I speak … not that I may cast a snare. Not to interfere with your freedom to marry. A snare thrown over the head made the victim helpless. Paul merely advises what, under the circumstances of that period, seemed most prudent.
36–38. But if any man think that he behaveth himself
uncomely toward his virgin daughter.
While giving a judgment in favor of the unmarried state, at that time, he gives
full liberty. A man may give his daughter in marriage. Behaveth uncomely.
Improperly in withholding her from marriage. If she pass the flower of her
age. If she is fully matured. If need so require. If circumstances
of any kind seem to require her marriage. 37. He that standeth steadfast . .
having no necessity. If no need makes marriage necessary, and the purpose
that she remain unmarried continues steadfast, he does well to let her remain
so. To choose either course is well, but the last is the better, where
circumstances permit (verse 38), on account of the “distress” (verse 26).
39, 40. The wife is bound by the law, etc. One point remains to be discussed, viz., The remarriage of
widows. I suppose that the letter of inquiry asked about this. She is at
liberty. In case of her husband’s death, she is free from the marriage
bond, and can marry whom she will, with one limitation—she must marry in the
Lord; that is, a Christian. An alien marriage is prohibited. Indeed, so far
was an ancient Christian from marrying an unbeliever that the question actually
arose whether, when the sinner was converted, he could still live with an
unconverted partner. See verses 12–14. 40. But she is happier. In his
judgment, and in the conditions then prevailing, she will consult her happiness
by remaining a widow. It is not only his judgment, but the Spirit seems to
point the same lesson. 1 Tim. 5:14, might be supposed to conflict with this,
but it does not, when we remember that Paul’s advice here is due to prevailing
circumstances. The question of marriage or remarriage is one of prudential
considerations.
Excerpt from:
The People's New Testament
by Barton
Warren Johnson
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